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A society-wide problem — the church is not immune
- The question posed (in the host's frame): today's topic that we want to talk about is very heavy. The host's opening figures (in the frame) put the scale of sexual violence, in the US, as sobering and sad. And the real travesty is that some of these incidents take place, in a church setting, or they're perpetrated by church leaders, or by church members. And even worse is when the victim is a child. Unfortunately, these types of crimes have happened at UPCI churches, or they've been committed by ministers, and church leaders. So, first of all: how widespread is this problem, specifically in the church? And what is the UPCI doing, to prevent sexual abuse from happening, in our churches? The answer: well, first of all, this is a very important, and serious, and, as you say, sobering topic. And it's a culture-wide problem. It's a society-wide problem. And the church is not immune. I sometimes use the example, that: churches, like your home — the temperature outside is going to affect the temperature inside. So we can have temperature control, inside. But if it's freezing outside, or if it's 100 degrees outside, you will tell the difference, inside your house. And you'll have to make adjustments, accordingly. So, unfortunately, the church comes from society. And the attitudes, the values, the practices, the knowledge — or lack of knowledge — in the whole society, is going to affect the members of the church. And then the ministers are drawn from the members. It's going to affect the ministers. So, as we've seen, the last few years: every segment of society's had appalling disclosures — from the entertainment industry, to the news industry, to big business, to politics, to various denominations. There have been horrendous examples of physical abuse. And, of course, the statistics you give probably cover a wide range: from sexual harassment, to maybe one inappropriate action, to ongoing abuse, or grooming. So the problem is huge, across society. And whether Democrats, Republicans, conservative, liberal, Catholic, Protestant — you know, no — atheist, or Muslims: nobody is immune, from this. Now, that's not a justification, for any wrongdoing. We have had to deal with some examples, within the church. I will say — I don't mean to say this in any way to trivialize, or minimize — but compared to, right now, 11,600 credentialed ministers ('11,600 credential ministers', as heard) in the UPCI, the number of failures there — you would expect, just the law of statistics, there would be some failures. But the number of failures, specifically in the area of abuse, is very small. But it is significant. I mean, one is too many. Plus, with the attention in society, and with the availability of social media, to communicate: cases of 20, 30, 40, even 50 years ago, are now coming to the surface. So we're having to deal with several. Not as if there's an extraordinary surge, right this minute. But you do have an accumulation, of things that, for one reason, or another, were never addressed — either because the victims never felt like they could, or they weren't handled properly. Even though it's not an extraordinary number, but each case is traumatic.
Old cases, the church's limits — and where most cases arise
- The host's follow-up (in the frame, standing verbatim-only in the record): haven't many states eliminated statutes of limitations, on these crimes? The answer: yes. And also, that is also kind of, in the secular society, as well as the church: it's kind of a pent-up thing ('pinup thing', as heard), of cases that you couldn't deal with — now suddenly you can. And that is relevant, to the church. Because our ability, as a church, to go back 20, 30, 40, 50 years ago, and investigate: we can't subpoena witnesses. We don't have detectives. And so, in many cases, it becomes one person's word, against another, in a church setting. Whereas the secular society does have subpoena power, and investigative power, and so forth. And so, if the secular society removes the statute of limitations, they can go back, do a much more thorough job, than we can. And so — I say, by the way — so, let me give you some resources. But I also make another point. Among the ministers, it's statistically extremely small. However, there are also cases of lay leaders, or just church members. And actually, the majority of cases: it's in the family, or step-family. So they happen to be going to church. But church is not where the abuser met the abused, or it's not where the abuse was perpetrated. But because they are members of the church, it comes to the attention of the church. And maybe the abuser is somehow involved, in some — you know, maybe they're seen in the choir, or they're a parking lot attendant ('parking lot attended', as heard), or whatever. So they have some visibility, in the church. But the root of most of these actually really is not the church setting, but a family setting. That doesn't mean it's any less horrible. And that doesn't mean the church doesn't need to deal with it. But what I'm saying is: it's not a problem created by the church. It is a problem that the church could handle well, or not handle well.
No cover-up — criminal conduct goes to the law; complaints follow the judicial procedure
- Now, let me give you some resources. We do have — if you go to upci.org — we do have a page, for Safe Church ('fors saafe church', as the letters stand), that gives all kinds of resources. And it basically says: if there is criminal conduct, you should go to the legal authorities. So we do not believe in cover-up. And we don't really believe the church is the best place, to handle cases of criminal abuse. So we want to cooperate with authority — legal authorities — because they're the ones that are going to have the ability to investigate. And what penalties can we impose? If it's a credential minister, we can take away their credentials. But they could still minister, on their own, somewhere. And once they're no longer a member of us, we have to be careful of invasion of privacy — even stating a true thing about them, in such a way that could harm their reputation, or their livelihood. So we're very limited, in what we can do. They can go on to another church, or another setting. And, you know, we can't prevent that. But if the law gets involved, the law can prevent that. So we do recommend: if there's a case of criminal conduct, you should get the law involved. We don't want cover-up. We don't think we can handle it, comprehensively. Now, if there's a complaint against a member of a local church, that may, or may not, be criminal: but the pastor is the logical person — or there may be a church board member, that is the appropriate person, to report to. If it involves a credential minister, it should be reported to the district superintendent. And we have a procedure. It's called a judicial procedure. You can file a complaint. And so the district superintendent can explain the proper way, to do that. And some people will say: well, we have to go through a process — that's not fair; you should just deal with it. Well, in the ideal world, maybe so. But even in the secular system, you have to go through a process. Because you have to presume that a person is innocent — prior to proven guilty ('Pro to proven guilty', as the letters stand). And there are cases, every so often — I've had to deal with cases of false accusations, as verified by the secular system. So I can't just presume a person's guilty. I have to presume innocence, or prove guilty ('presume Innocents are prove guilty', as the phrase stands). You have to protect their rights. And also, you have to protect against false accusations. But you have to have due process. So we're a voluntary organization. We can't investigate a person's private life. But if they're a credential minister, they have given us consent, to follow our own judicial procedure. So, if we follow our procedure, we can deal with that person's credentials. But if we don't follow our procedure, then we could be guilty of violating their rights, and be liable for civil penalties ('Crim civil penalties', as the letters stand). Or whatever we impose could be overturned. So, even though, you know, people say: well, why do we have to go through this — writing a formal complaint, and signing it, and sending it to the district superintendent ('district super', as truncated)? Well, we have to have that process, or we can't — we're not allowed, by law, to deal with the situation, the way it needs to be dealt with.
- Okay, so: if you go to the Safe Church page ('upc.org org for/ saafe Church', as the letters stand), you will see that explanation, that I've just described. You will see an official position paper of the UPCI — which is also in our manual, available to all ministries — and it's called: abuse and sexual misconduct (the title, as heard). So that is our official position, for all forms of abuse, and sexual misconduct. We also have an article, by me. It's called: when abuse comes to church (the title, as heard). And it talks, in detail: what's the proper way to deal with abuse. First of all: how do we prevent a culture of abuse. But then if abuse happens — whether it's outside the church, and the abused person is now coming to the church, for help — or whether it happens, in a church context, or with a church member — what's the, what should the church do? So I have a whole article, about that.
Policies, training, and counseling — helping hurting people before any verdict
- So what has the — and then we have other resources. We have sample policies, for churches to implement, to help prevent abuse, and deal properly, with any accusations of abuse. We have some training videos. And we're adding more videos. Some are toward the church — where you can train your volunteer workers, and paid workers, of the church: the district camps, Sunday school, children's ministry, youth ministry — we're producing those. We also have some videos for people who have been abused. So we're trying to do both. And we're trying to add. We do have a Safe Church committee, which — if someone wants assistance, they can contact the Safe Church committee. And we can talk with them, about how to respond. For ministers, and their families, we do have an endorsed counseling service. That is — it's on its own, but we recommend it — points of refuge (the name, as heard). And then, for everyone, we have an endorsed counseling network — the center for Apostolic counseling (the name, as heard). These are separate, from the UPCI, but endorsed by the UPCI. We also have Helping Hands, where — it is a separate foundation, but we have a relationship with it. If someone has been abused, in the context of the church, and they need counseling, we can refer them. And we can sign that this is a legitimate claim. And then that separate foundation can provide counseling. So this is a way that, even though the church may not have any responsibility, in the legal sense — but because we want to minister, to people who have been abused — we have ways of giving them counseling, even before there is a legal determination, of who's guilty, or who's responsible. You know, our interest is not just what is the legal outcome. Our interest is helping hurting people, no matter who they are. So we do have several avenues, to do that, which we feel are very important.
- But, to say: what has the UPCI done? So, in 2019, we adopted that position paper, which is quite comprehensive. In 2020, we were not able to have a full General Conference, because of coid (as heard). But in 2021, we — at our General Conference, we have a minister session. So perhaps you'd have a thousand ministers there. And so we devoted that whole session to Safe Church, and to this presentation, of how to prevent abuse, and how to deal with abuse. And then, in 2021, that article, that I mentioned earlier — which was a summary, or a transcript, of my part of the presentation — that was put in forward (the magazine, as named), which is our magazine, distributed free, to all the ministers, in the US and Canada. And so then, from there, we have trained our general board. And various districts: we're providing training, to each district, at their request. And so each district is doing its own thing, of course. Also, we have training, for all ministers. So I have recorded a video, that every person who's seeking credentials — or, if they already have credentials, and they're seeking to go to the next level: from local license, to general; or general, to ordination — this is a video that accompanies the manual. So they're supposed to read the relevant section, of the manual. But they're supposed to watch the video, where I do — like I'm doing now, but in a little more detail — and go through the steps. So we're trying to — in other words, we're trying to provide training, for every minister, in multiple formats. And we've also amended our judicial procedure. And we have more proposals, that will be more specific, as: we get experience; we learn what are the stumbling blocks, or what are the difficulties. What — you know — because our judicial procedure was written to cover all hypothetical cases of ministerial misconduct: from ethics, to finances, to doctrine, to morals. But when you deal with child abuse, there are some specific issues. And so we're trying to streamline that track, to deal specifically, efficiently ('effici ly', as the letters stand), and effectively. And then we're providing training, for those who are involved, in administering the judicial procedure. So they will have — because they may not have had a background, of any experience — so we're providing training, and professional support. And that's another thing the Safe Church committee is trying to do, is making sure that: if we — when we deal with these cases — we have trained people, who are advising the authorities, who are responsible for the administration, of the judicial procedure. And I can tell you, we've spent many, many hours, working through this process.
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- We did have a case, like this. And it went through our judicial procedure, to a trial. It's the first time, in 25 years, we've actually had a church trial. But it did result in a conviction, and a removal of that minister, from the UPCI. Because of a history — of many years ago, actually before he became a minister — of misconduct with minors ('miners', as the word stands). But we felt like: whether it's after getting credentials, or before — this kind of character flaw, and this kind of track record, disqualifies a person ('just qualifies a person', as the words stand) for a position of leadership, over other people. So we take it that seriously. But 90% of the time, when there is a credible allegation, of this nature, we go to the minister, and we ask for their immediate resignation, and receive it. And we say: look, if you go through a process, in the legal system, and you document this is false, then you come back, and we'll reconsider your minister application (the words stand as 'will reconsider'). But because of the nature of the allegations, and because of the credibility — you know, because there is a strong statement — we're recommending that you withdraw, from active ministry, at this time, until the matter is resolved. And we recommend you turning in your credentials, with UPCI, until the matter is resolved. So 90% of the time, that's what happens. But if the person says: no, I'm innocent; this is absolutely false; I want to fight it — well, obviously, we want to give them every right. And we go through the full judicial process. And, as I've said, there have been a few cases where the person was exonerated. They said: no, I want to remain on the role, because I will be able to prove my case. And it turns out that was correct. And we understand that. So it's a very important issue. It's an ongoing process. But I can tell you that we are dealing with it, very seriously. And I think we're becoming more and more effective, as time goes on. I'm hoping we're helping to mold, and shape, a culture of awareness, and understanding: that we're going to prevent a lot of potential cases. And then, if there are some cases, we're going to be able to deal with it appropriately, up front, to minimize the damage, so that there are no subsequent victims. And that — that's my goal. And then to provide help, to those who have been victimized. And so those are some big, difficult, ambitious goals. But we are making significant — and there the captured text ends, mid-sentence: the goals sentence's completion, and the episode's outro, are not in the captured text (see the truncation flag on this record); nothing has been supplied to fill the tail.
Transcript
well first of all this is a very important and serious and as you say sobering topic and it's it's a culture-wide problem it's a society-wide problem and the church is not immune I sometimes use the example uh that churches like your home the temperature outside is going to affect the temperature inside so we can have temperature control inside but if it's freezing outside or if it's 100 degrees outside you will tell the difference inside your house and you'll have to make adjustments accordingly so unfortunately the church comes from society and the the attitudes the values the practices um the knowledge or lack of knowledge in the whole society is going to affect the members of the church and then the ministers are drawn from the members it's going to affect the ministers so as we've seen the last few years every segment of society's had appalling disclosures from the entertainment industry to the news industry to Big Business to politics to various denominations U there have been horrendous examples of physical abuse and of course the statistics you give probably cover a wide range from sexual harassment to uh maybe one inappropriate action to to ongoing abuse um or grooming so uh so the problem is huge across society and whether Democrats Republicans conservative liberal Catholic Protestant you know no atheist or or Muslims nobody is immune from this now that's not a justification for any wrongdoing we have had to deal with some examples within the church I will say uh I don't mean to say this any way to trivialize or minimize but compared to right now 11,600 credential ministers in the upci the number of failures there are you would expect just the law of Statistics there would be some failures but the number of failures specifically in the area of abuse is very small uh but it is significant I mean one is too many uh plus with the attention in society and with the availability of social media to communicate uh uh cases of 20 30 40 even 50 years ago are now coming to the surface so we're having to deal with several not as if there's an extraordinary surge right this minute but you do have an accumulation of things that for one reason or another were never addressed either because the victims never felt like could or they weren't handled properly uh even those it's not an extraordinary number but each case is traumatic and
yes and and also that that is also kind of in the secular societ as well as the church it's kind of pinup thing of cases that you couldn't deal with now suddenly you can um and that is relevant to the church because our ability as a church to go back 20 30 40 50 years ago and investigate we can't subpoena Witnesses uh we don't have detectives and so in many cases it becomes one person's word against another in a church setting whereas the secular society does have subpoena power and investigative power and so forth for and so if the secular society removes the statute of limitations they can go back do a much more thorough job than we can and so so I I say by the way uh so so let me give you some some some resources uh but but I also make another Point among the ministers Isa it's statistically extremely small however there there are also cases of lay leaders or just church members and actually the majority of cases it's in the family or step family so they happen to be going to church but church is not where the abuser met the abused or it's not where the abuse was perpetrated but because they are members of the church it comes to the attention of the church and maybe the abuser is somehow involved in some you know maybe they're seen in the choir or they're you know parking lot attended or whatever so they have some visibility in the church uh but the root of most of these actually really is um not the church setting but a family setting that doesn't mean it's any less horrible and that doesn't mean the church doesn't need to deal with it but what I'm saying is it's not a problem created by the church it is a problem that the church could handle well or not handle well now let me give you some resources we do have uh if you go to upci.org we do have a page fors saafe church that gives all kind of resources and it basically says if there is Criminal cont cond you should go to the legal authorities so we do not believe in cover up and we don't really believe the church is the best place to handle cases of criminal abuse uh so we want to cooperate with authority legal authorities because they're the ones that are going to have the ability to investigate and we we what penalties can we impose if it's a credential Minister we can take away their credentials but they could still minister on their own somewhere and and once they're no longer a member of us we we have to be careful of invasion of privacy even stating a true thing about them and such a way that could harm their reputation or their livelihood so we're very limited in what we can do they can go on to another church or another setting and uh you know we can't prevent that but if the law gets involved the law can prevent that so we do recommend if there's a case of criminal conduct you should get the law involved we don't want cover up we don't think we can handle it comprehensively now if there's a complaint against a member of a local church that mayor may not be criminal but the pastor is the logical person or there may be a church board member that is appropriate person to to report if it involves a credential Minister it should be reported to the district superintendent and we have a procedure it's called a Judicial procedure you can file a complaint and so the district superintendent can explain the proper way to do that and some people will say well we have to go through a process that's not fair you should just deal with it well in the ideal World maybe so but even in the secular system you have to go through a process because you have to presume that a person is innocent Pro to proven guilty and there are cases every so often I've had to deal with cases of false um accusations as verified by the secular system so I can't just presume a person's guilty I have to presume Innocents are prove guilty you have to protect their rights and also you have to protect against false accusations but you have to have due process so we're a voluntary organization we can't investigate a person's private life but if they're credential minister they have given us consent to follow our own judicial procedure so if we follow our procedure we can deal with that person's credentials but if we don't follow our procedure then we could be guilty of violating their rights and be liable for Crim civil penalties or whatever we impose could be overturned so even though you know people say well why do we have to go through this writing a formal complaint and signing it and sending it to the district super well we have to have that process or we can't we're not allowed by law to deal with the situation the way it needs to be done with dealt with okay so if you go to upc.org org for/ saafe Church you will see that explanation that I've just described you will see uh official position paper of the upci which is also in our manual available to all Ministries um and it's U but it's there on that website it's called abuse and sexual misconduct so that is our official position for all forms of abuse and sexual misconduct we also have an article by me it's called when abuse comes to church and it talks in detail what's the proper way to deal with abuse first of all how do we prevent a culture of abuse but then if abuse happens whether it's outside the church and the abused person is now coming to the church for help or whether it happens in a church context or with a church member what's the what should the church do so I have a whole article about that um so what has the and then we have other resources we have sample policies for um churches to implement to help prevent abuse and and deal properly with any accusations of abuse we have some training videos uh and we're adding more videos some are toward the church where you can train your volunteer workers and paid workers of the church the district camps Sunday school children's ministry youth ministry uh we're producing those we also have some videos for people who have been abused so we're trying to do both and we're trying to add we do have a safe Church committee which uh if someone want wants assistance they can contact the safe Church committee and we can talk with them about how to respond uh for ministers and their families we do have an endorsed uh counseling service that is it's on its own but we recommend it uh points of refuge and then for everyone we have an Endor endorsed counseling network uh the center for Apostolic counseling these are separate from the upci but endorsed by the upci we also have Helping Hands where it it is a separate Foundation but we have a relationship with it if someone has been abused in the context of the church and they need counseling we can refer them and we can sign that this is a legitimate claim and then that separate Foundation can provide counseling so this is a way that even though the church may not have any responsibility in the legal sense but because we want to minister to to people who have been abused we have ways of giving them counseling even before there is a legal determination of what who's guilty or who's responsible you know our interest is not just what is the legal outcome our interest is helping hurting people no matter who they are so we do have several Avenues to do that uh which we feel are very important but to say what is the upci done so in 2019 we adopted that position paper which is quite comprehensive in 2020 we were not able to have a full General Conference because of coid but in 2021 we at our general conference we have a minister session uh so perhaps you'd have a thousand ministers there and so we devoted that whole session to Safe church and to this presentation of how to prevent abuse and how to deal with abuse and then in 2021 that article that I mentioned earlier which was uh a summary or um uh a transcript of my part of the presentation that was put in forward which is our magazine distributed free to all the ministers in the US and Canada uh and so then from there we have trained our general board uh and various districts we're providing training to each district at their request and so each district is doing its own thing of course also we have training for all ministers so I have recorded a video that every person who's seeking min or credentials or if they already have credentials and they're seeking to go to the next level from local license to General or general to ordination this is a video that accompanies the manual so they're supposed to read the relevant section of the manual but they're supposed to watch the video where I do like I'm doing now but in a little more detail and go through the steps so we're trying to in other words we're trying to provide training for every minister in multiple formats and we've also amended our judicial procedure and we have uh more proposals that will be more specific as we get experience we learn what are the stumbling blocks or what are the difficulties what uh you know because our judicial procedure was written to cover all hypothetical cases of ministerial misconduct from ethics to finances to Doctrine to morals uh but when you deal with child abuse there are some specific issues and so we're trying to streamline that track to deal specifically and effici ly and effectively and then we're providing training for those who are involved in administering the judicial procedure so they will have because they may not have had a background of any experience so we're providing training and professional support and that's another thing the safe Church committee is trying to do is making sure that if we when we deal with these cases we have trained people who are advising the authorities who are responsible for the administration of the judicial procedure and I can tell you we've spent many many hours uh working through this process we did have um a case like this uh and it went through our judicial procedure uh to a trial it's the first time in 25 years we've actually had a church trial but it did result in a conviction and a removal of that Minister uh from the upci because of a history uh of many years ago actually before he became a minister but of misconduct with miners but we felt like whether it's after getting credentials or before this kind of character flaw and this kind of track record just qualifies a person for position of leadership over other people so we take it that seriously but 90% of the time when there is a credible allegation of this nature we go to the minister and we ask for their immediate resignation and receive it and we say look if you go through a process in the legal system and you document this is false then you come back and will reconsider your minister application but because of the nature of the um allegations and because of the credibility you know because there is a strong statement we're recommending that you withdraw from active Ministry at this time until the matter is resolved and we recommend you turning your credentials with upci until the matter resolved so 90% of the time that's what happens but if the person says no I'm innocent this is absolutely false I want to fight it well obviously we want to give them every right and we we go through the full judicial process and as I've said there have been a few cases where the person was exonerated they said no I I I want to remain uh on the role because I will be able to prove my case and it turns out that was correct and and we understand that so it's a very important issue it's an ongoing process but I can tell you that we are dealing with it very seriously and I think we're becoming uh more and more effective as as time goes on I'm hoping we're helping to mold and shape a culture of awareness and understanding that we're going to prevent a lot of potential cases and then if there are some cases we're going to be able to deal with it appropriately upfront to minimize the damage so that there are no subsequent victims and that that's my goal and then to provide help to those who have been victimized and so those are some big difficult ambitious goals but we are making significant